Wednesday, December 25, 2013

Christmas, 2013

LUKE 2:15-20
ON CHRISTMAS EVE WE HAVE SUPPER FOR OUR CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN. I DON'T KNOW WHERE ALL THE TRADITIONS CAME FROM; WE BREAK AND SHARE A WAFER OF BREAD, THE OPATEK, A POLISH CUSTOM; WE EAT DRIED FRUIT – SOMETHING THAT CAME FROM MY GERMAN GRANDPARENTS WHO FARMED OUT IN MONTANA, AND COULD ONLY GET DRIED FRUIT IN THE MIDDLE OF THE WINTER; WE HAVE SOMETHING FROM THE SEA – THAT STARTED BACK WHEN CATHOLICS DIDN'T EAT MEAT ON CERTAIN DAYS, INCLUDING CHRISTMAS EVE; AND WE ALWAYS HAVE PICKLED HERRING, WHICH NO ONE REALLY LIKES BUT IT WOULDN'T BE CHRISTMAS WITHOUT IT. UP UNTIL A COUPLE OF YEARS AGO, WE STARTED OUR CHRISTMAS MEAL WITH OYSTER STEW. NO ONE LIKED THAT EITHER, SO WE FIGURED WE'D JUST STICK WITH ONE THING WE DIDN'T LIKE, THE PICKLED HERRING.
TRADITIONS. YOU HAVE THEM, WE HAVE THEM. THEY ARE MEMORIES ACTED OUT. WE CONTINUE TO OBSERVE THEM BECAUSE THE MEAN SOMETHING TO US, EVEN IF TO NO ONE ELSE.
IN THE GOSPEL READING, IT SAYS THAT MARY “TREASURED ALL THESE THINGS AND REFLECTED UPON THEM IN HER HEART.” AND THAT TREASURING AND REFLECTING MUST HAVE GONE ON AND ON, EVERY YEAR, ESPECIALLY AROUND THE DATE OF HIS BIRTH. LONG AFTER JESUS HAD ASCENDED INTO HEAVEN, LEGEND HAS IT THAT MARY REVEALED TO THE EVANGELIST LUKE THE EVENTS OF JESUS BIRTH – SHE WAS STILL REFLECTING, STILL TREASURING.
SHE REMEMBERED THE MOMENT WHEN THE HOLY SPIRIT TOUCHED HER LIFE, AND SHE SAID, “BE IT DONE TO ME ACCORDING TO YOUR WORD!” AND SHE BECAME PREGNANT. AND LIKE ANY PREGNANT WOMAN, IT WASN'T ALL BLISS; SHE HAD MORNING SICKNESS, FELT BLOATED, HER ANKLES SWELLED A BIT, AND SHE GAINED WEIGHT. AND THEN CAME THAT TIME WITH THE PAIN AND PRESSURE AND YES, FEAR, FOR THE LIFE OF THE CHILD, FOR HER OWN LIFE – AND THE INFANT BROKE THROUGH INTO THE WORLD.
WE CHRISTIANS ARE TOUCHED BY THE SPIRIT. WE CAN POINT TO A MOMENT IN OUR LIVES WHEN WE HAVE BEEN INVITED TO CONCEIVE CHRIST – OUR BAPTISMS. THAT INVITATION IS THERE ALL OUR LIVES, BUT THE SPIRIT WAITS, WAITS FOR US TO SAY, “BE IT DONE TO ME ACCORDING TO YOUR WORD!” BECAUSE HE WILL NOT ACT WITHOUT OUR CONSENT. BUT WHEN WE CONSENT, JESUS BEGINS TO BE FORMED IN US. IT ISN'T EASY. WE HAVE TIMES OF DOUBT, OF MISUNDERSTANDING. SOMETIMES IT SEEMS THAT THE WORLD IS CONSPIRING AGAINST US. LIKE MARY, WE ALSO HAVE TO STRUGGLE AND PUT UP WITH OUR HUMAN NATURE, WHICH RESISTS THE CHANGES WE ARE BEING CALLED TO MAKE.
MARY REMEMBERED CHANGING DIAPERS, PUTTING UP WITH SLEEPLESS NIGHTS WHEN THE INFANT HAD COLIC. SHE REMEMBERED AS WELL HOW CUTE HE LOOKED WHEN HE WAS ASLEEP. SHE REMEMBERED HIS FIRST WORDS, AND HOW DELIGHTED SHE WAS AS SHE BEGAN TO SEE THE FRUITS OF HER EFFORTS, AS HIS PERSONALITY TOOK SHAPE, AND HE BEGAN TO GROW INTO THE MAN HE WOULD BECOME, A MAN OF COMPASSION AND LOVE, BUT ALSO A MAN WHO WORKED WITH HIS HANDS AND STUDIED HIS FAITH AND CARED FOR HER AFTER JOSEPH PASSED AWAY.
WHEN WE CHRISTIANS HAVE CONCEIVED CHRIST, THERE ARE MOMENTS OF JOY AS WE EXPERIENCE THE TRANSFORMATION GOING ON IN OUR PERSONS. SOMETIMES WE EXPERIENCE GREAT CONSOLATION, AND CAN ALMOST FEEL GOD'S PRESENCE IN OUR LIVES. A CHRISTIAN'S LIFE SHOULD BE TOUCHED WITH JOY. JESUS SAID THAT HE CAME TO SHARE HIS JOY, SO THAT OUR JOY WOULD BE FULL.
MARY REMEMBERED A DAY WHEN JESUS LEFT HOME. SHE REMEMBERED WHEN SHE AND SOME OF HIS RELATIVES TRIED TO TALK SOME SENSE INTO HIM AND HE TOLD THEM THAT HIS MOTHER AND BROTHERS AND SISTERS WERE THOSE WHO HEARD THE WORLD OF GOD AND KEPT IT. THERE WERE MANY TIMES WHEN SHE FELT ABANDONED AS HE TRAVELED AROUND PALESTINE PREACHING AND HEALING. AND OF COURSE NOTHING COULD BE AS HARD AS STANDING AT THE FOOT OF THE CROSS AND WATCHING THE LIFE LEAVE HIS BODY.
CHRISTIANS EXPERIENCE TIMES WHEN THEY FEEL ABANDONED. THE DEATH OF A LOVED ONE; A PAINFUL DIVORCE; A CHILD WHO LEAVES HIS FAITH. WE FEEL ABANDONED WHEN CANCER HAPPENS, OR WE LOSE OUR JOBS, OR SOMETHING ELSE HAPPENS THAT REMINDS US THAT WE ARE MORTAL, THAT WE ARE NOT IN CONTROL.
BUT MARY REMEMBERS THE RESURRECTION WHEN SHE TOUCHED HER SON AND SPOKE TO HIM, AND SAW HIM TRIUMPHANTLY ASCEND INTO HEAVEN. SHE SAW HOW HIS LIFE TRANSFORMED THE FIRST CHRISTIANS, AND WHEN SHE CLOSED HER EYES FOR THE LAST TIME, SHE HAD NO DOUBT THAT RESURRECTION WOULD FOLLOW FOR HER, AND HER JOY WOULD BE COMPLETE, AND THERE WOULD BE NO MORE FEAR OF DEATH.
AND FOR CHRISTIANS, THE RESURRECTION OF JESUS IS HOW WE MAKE SENSE OF OUR LIVES. ONCE WE SEE OUR LIVES IN THE LIGHT OF THE RESURRECTION, EVERY MOMENT, GOOD OR BAD, HAS MEANING. THE LIFE WE ARE LIVING BEGINS TO FORM A STORY LEADING UP TO A WONDERFUL CLIMAX, INSTEAD OF SIMPLY A LONG SERIES OF UNRELATED EVENTS.
MARY IS THE FIRST CHRISTIAN, INVITED BY THE HOLY SPIRIT TO BRING CHRIST INTO THE WORLD. AND YET HER LIFE IS ORDINARY – THE ANGEL COMES AND GOES, AND HER LIFE IS LIKE YOURS AND MINE, TIMES OF JOY, TIMES OF SORROW, SOMETIMES FEELING ALONE AND ABANDONED, OFTEN FRIGHTENED. DID SHE HAVE DOUBTS LIKE YOU AND I DO? I THINK SO, BECAUSE REAL FAITH DOUBTS; AND THERE IS NO SHAME IN THAT. DID SHE HAVE TIMES WHEN SHE FELT LIKE SHE WAS SPINNING HER WHEELS AND HER LIFE WAS GOING NOWHERE? PROBABLY, BECAUSE THAT'S HUMAN TOO. WE DO THE SAME THINGS DAY AFTER DAY – LAUNDRY HAS TO BE DONE, MEALS PREPARED, THE CAR ATTENDED TO, THE DAILY COMMUTE.
BUT MARY TREASURED ALL THESE THINGS AND REFLECTED UPON THEM IN HER HEART. THAT'S THE SECRET SHE TEACHES US, TO LOOK FOR GOD'S PRESENCE IN OUR ORDINARY LIFE, AND THAT REQUIRES THAT WE BRING THESE THINGS OUT AND REFLECT ON THEM, PONDER THEM, THE GOOD AND THE BAD. THE ANGEL CALLED HER “MOST FAVORED DAUGHTER” AND SHE KNEW THAT EVERYTHING IN HER LIFE WOULD SOMEDAY BE REVEALED AS A BLESSING, A GIFT. AND YOU AND I ARE FAVORED AS WELL, AND THAT IS THE PROMISE – GOD MAKES TO HIS CHILDREN – EVERY MOMENT IS A GIFT.
MARY CONCEIVED CHRIST, GAVE BIRTH TO HIM, RAISED HIM IN EVERY SENSE OF THE WORD, AS EVERY MOTHER RAISES HER CHILDREN; THE MAN HE BECAME, OUR LORD AND SAVIOR, IS THE PRODUCT OF MARY RESPONDING TO THE HOLY SPIRIT, LIVING OUT THE JOYFUL CONSENT SHE GAVE, “BE IT DONE TO ME ACCORDING TO YOUR WORD.” AND SHE IS THE EXAMPLE TO EVERY CHRISTIAN, BECAUSE EACH OF US IS CALLED TO BRING CHRIST INTO THE WORLD, TO GIVE FLESH TO GOD.